www.planjam.com [1] is an awesome website I found where you can discover restaurants, activities and local hotspots for anywhere in the US. You can also check out different "scenes" in the big cities and search for stuff to do based on your interests (for example: Gay and Lesbian, Girlie activities and Romantic date ideas) I love it because you can just hop on quickly to find a place to eat or you can spend hours networking with others in your area. Everyone should definitely check it out!